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No means “No”: Don’t make the girls feel uncomfortable

No means “No”: Don’t make the girls feel uncomfortable

It’s a common enough occurrence in our business to have clients who just don’t know how to take “no” for an answer. It’s a shame, but then there are lots of factors to consider too. Those who don’t like hearing the word “no” in the escort business are usually those that have either had too much to drink, or they’ve taken some other type of substance that alters their mind. Alters their mind into thinking that they are some kind of exception to the rule. This is certainly not the case!

Let’s get it straight right from the start that we are not pointing the finger at any of our regular, faithful and trusted clients here. And we are not making accusations about anything untoward, any kind of assault, physical or sexual. Thankfully this doesn’t happen. What we mean are those out there who get themselves all upset and perhaps very rude when they hear the word “no”.

Used to getting what you want?

Perhaps it’s because some of these people spend their lives telling others what to do, and they forget themselves. They are maybe just not used to hearing the word, and they like it even less when an escort tells them, because they’re paying them. The fact remains that you are only paying for companionship services with an escort, no matter where or when you book them. Anything that the two of you get up to during your booking must be agreed upon by both of you.

These bright young things are not programmed to do what you tell them, it doesn’t matter how much money you pay them. And besides, even if they said they would do this or that, when it comes down to it, it’s up to them if they change their minds, right? A woman’s prerogative and all that! And it’s also worth thinking about what you may be doing that may actually be putting her off doing particular things with you. Especially your behaviour. If you are being nonchalant and pushy, she’s likely to not even want to be in the same room with you. We’re the same if we get a client on the phone that’s demanding and rude. We’ll simply put the phone down, and if it persists, we’ll block the number. There are plenty of other people who deserve the company of these young escorts!

Talk about your expectations

A great way to avoid any problems is to discuss your requirements with your escort when you arrive, or she arrives at your place. You can of course verify things through the agency if you want, but we are not the girl, so inevitably it’s her choice when she meets you. Whilst we are happy to pass along any messages, you must always remember that it’s not “a given” that she will do whatever you want.

Talk to her when you arrive and discuss how you wish the date to go. You don’t have to worry about being embarrassed or anything like that, there will be quite literally nothing that she hasn’t heard before we can assure you. When the girls get a client who is considerate and reasonable with them, kind and honest etc. they are much more inclined to acquiesce to certain requests. It’s much the same in everyday life when you think about it, right? If you meet a demanding, rude individual, you are far less likely to go the extra mile to make them happy!

Agency action

There really isn’t much an agency can do to help you if you don’t get what you want, we’ll be honest. We can listen to your complaints if you have them, and we can pass on what you say to the girl you saw. If it’s something we agree she could have done differently, or if we believe that you have been unfairly treated, we will be sure to give her a warning and if it persists, we will no longer represent her.

If on the other hand, you have been disrespectful and rude and caused a problem, we will do the same to you. We will no longer accept bookings from you. And it’s worthwhile noting that we do have a register of people who are abusive and rude to escorts in London, and we will be quick to add you to it.

At the end of the day, the girls are pursuing a career and they want to do it with as little hassle as possible. So it just pays to be kind gentlemen. Thanks for reading!


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